Supporting them in Infertility

“Success”…  What comes to your mind when you hear or read this word? For most of the people it is surely their achievements; their accomplishments; having reached their dream post at their respective workplaces … AAHHHHH!! You shall nowhere get to hear the words such as compassion, contentment, peace and serenity being related to success! Definitions have changed… less for the good… more for the bad! Dr. Seema Jain is the best lady Gynecologist at CheQkmate Gynecology Hospital Pune.

Karan Johar was appreciated for his paternal love having emerged at the age of 44! The nation was worried for the mesmerizing choreographer, Farah Khan, who carried triplets to term had with her, the support of lakhs of unknown people! Facebook and Twitter were streaming with prayers and unexpected support came in for the IVF treatment she had undergone!
Well, isn’t it meant for us to provide support to our friends and family members who fight infertility? Why are they interrogated and showered upon with doubts and a baggage of uncertainties with the treatment?
In case, you are in a fix not knowing how you face them and how might you be helpful despite not being a doctor, please allow us to help you. Dr. Seema Jain is the best lady Gynecologist at CheQkmate Gynecology Hospital Pune.

Ways you can help your friend during their unfortunate season!

• Once you come to know about the trauma your friend is into, the very first thing you ought to do is to assure her that you are going to be with her. NO matter what the fight leads to. If you happen to know anyone who is parenting a child today after having gone through infertility, introducing her to your troubled friend shall be a great idea! This surely will implant positivity and hope.

• Never ever get into philosophy here… Infertility is not something that happens for a reason! Explaining troubled people about “Karma” is definitely not going to be happening! No couple wanting a child deserves infertility. Please try to stay in sync with the emotions of the couple as anything different would surely drive them towards negativity. Making a couple believe that they have been destined with infertility would really take away the leftover courage and hopes from them!

• If the couple feels, their life is going to be ideal with kids, please do agree to their preferences. You suggesting them about how troublesome life is with kids is surely going to make your friends move away from you… may be forever. They might be waiting for a child to spill the milk over the floor, colour the walls with crayons and turn their house into a mess! They are waiting to have those sleepless nights and experience each and every thing; you feel is irritating for you.

• Ask her what thought is troubling her. Once you get an idea of what exactly is happening, read and read… Let yourself know as much as you can so that you do not end up assuming things. When you and your friend are on the same page, improvements shall be felt! And when your friend sees that you are well aware of her problem the trust level rises lowering her stress levels.

• Support her. Praise her for how she has been undergoing the treatment with such impeccable emotional strength. Though her face looks calm and her body language seems composed, her fight is beyond anyone’s understanding.

• Be careful of you not crossing the line. At the end of the day, infertility is a private matter. Do not try to dig in the reason for it, if your friend has not shared. It might be the male or the female, behind the entire story. Knowing about who and how can be annoying and might create a disconnect. Try to work up with the information you have.

• When a couple is stressed about not having been able to conceive a second baby, try to understand their situation and thought process. “So what? You already have a kid!” can be a disheartening comment. The goal is not just to reproduce. Inability to conceive their second baby can hurt as badly as the failure for the first one.

Infertility support groups are in trend today and no doubt almost all the infertile couples go ahead and seek help there.
What might be the reason for the couples heading towards a group of people whom they have never seen or met?
Why is it so that trust levels have grown stronger with virtual connections than the ones in front of them?
Are we burdening them with the preconceived notions of infertility?
Are we passing judgements that break their hearts? Infertility makes people lose themselves and all they try to do is search for themselves in others!
Be the person, whom they can rely on! Dr. Seema Jain is the best lady Gynecologist at CheQkmate Gynecology Hospital Pune.

Stand with people during their most difficult times and they shall remember you for their lifetime. Life is all about making a place in people’s hearts! That’s another beautiful form of success stuffed with peace and contentment!
Let’s redefine success… Let’s redefine humanity!

About the Doctor
Dr. Seema Jain is a Gynecologist at CheQkmate Gynecology Hospital Pune PCMC providing support and care. Begin your journey towards parenthood with Dr. Seema Jain, Gynecologist & Fertility Specialist at CheQKmate, an advanced Fertility & IVF in Pune, PCMC. As a dedicated fertility specialist, she offers comprehensive care, ensuring tailor-made solutions. If you’re searching for the best fertility doctor in Pimple Saudagar, Pune, trust Dr. Seema Jain’s expertise. Our fertility clinic near you is committed to providing unparalleled services in a state-of-the-art facility.

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