IVF After 40

Infertility turns you into a person with half agony and half hope! Whichever emotion you feed, is going to grow stronger. And strong emotions do turn into reality. So be very careful about what your mind is filled with while you are fighting infertility… Conception does become an obsession by this point of time and we understand it completely. CheQKmate is a renowned IVF Clinic in Pune PCMC.

We bring you some rules for you to adapt and help you survive the phase of infertility gracefully!

# Rule 1
Understand that conception is difficult and not impossible.

Infertility shall take you a room filled with questions. Foreseeing the near future is the most painful thing as there is nothing you can see. What we want you to do is realise the fact this phase is temporary and not a permanent one. Do not let the victim feeling emerge as once this feeling is born, you lose the inner strength. We completely agree that being tagged as infertile leaves no reason for happiness… day in and day out you only think about what might help…

Well, if you stop thinking, it might really help beyond your imagination! Stop thinking and get out of the house! Roam around, go to your favorite places and do whatever makes you happy! Life is too short to keep yourself under house arrest for reasons you have no control upon!

# Rule 2
It’s never necessary that what you think must happen!
Life has its own rules and timings. Not always, things and people will come in your life as per your timings. It’s nature that rules. Believe in karma. Karmic timings are different than your expectations.
Practice acceptance and be accommodative. All that is coming in your life is yours and no one can ever change it. Practicing the virtue of acceptance shall take you ahead of your expectations!

# Rule 3
Time to use the best medicine for all the ailments… Laughter!    
C’mon, you are not into a prison. You have not committed any serious crime. Knowingly or unknowingly your heart fills up with pain and is packed tight with emotions. You can make a hole of laughter and create little new space for the other positive things as well. This is the time when life demands you to stay stronger so that your partner doesn’t break down with hopelessness. Men do have emotions… The disability of hiding them is a completely different story!
Let go off the seriousness…please..

# Rule 4
Be an extrovert.
The world you live in has lots of pain… Levels of pain which you might never be able to imagine… It is said that if different people would be made to sit on a table and asked to exchange their problems, no one would dare to do so. You own a problem only because you are strong enough to come out of it.
Share your problems with your friends and your well-wishers. Some humans would be glad to help you… Some by suggesting you experts, some by giving you enough moral support, and some accompanying you while you are restricted from comfort foods! Only after you open up, will you shall be able to sense the pain in others’ life! Join infertility support groups for sure. You shall come across many people in the groups who share their experiences. It will surely be helpful for you to stay strong.
Big changes in life do not come without pain and sacrifice. The lessons you get are priceless!

# Rule 5
If self-motivation is the best form of motivation… self strengthening too is…
Strength is important both physically and mentally. Physical strength comes from the right nutrition and the right exercise. This might demand your cool lifestyle as well. Smoking and alcohol are surely going to be missing!
Changes shall be made only to make you feel good. Right nutrition helps your mind maintain a clean bed of positive thoughts. You talk positively. Your mind and your mouth are related to each other. Your mouth affects your mind and your mind affects your mouth. Initially, changes made shall feel difficult and challenging. But after experiencing the goodness in them, you shall be more positive about them.

# Rule 6  
You are not alone in the fight!
Amongst all that is happening, don’t forget that your spouse is as well in pain… He too is trying to make you feel good. Bear in mind that he too is missing the best part of his life as you are. Life is testing his patience too. He too might be emptying his heart… but not when you are along…
So why can’t you take a small step towards the togetherness? This is the time when you are supposed to forget all the differences and sort out the issue together.

# Rule 7
If you can’t laugh on the same joke again and again, why cry for the same pain again and again?
No, we are not being inhuman by saying the above statement. You need to cry… cry out loud… shout or even scream is required… tear the old magazines and put all your long held pain in those tiny destructions.
Tears to the soul are what soap to the body is! Cleanse your soul. But this has to be done only once. Settle down with your emotional pain once you are done crying. Over thinking and crying again and again shall never let you grow while you are in problem…
Yes, you grow… drastically when in some problem.

# Rule 8
Knowledge is wealth!
Have good knowledge about the problem. Read and be well acquainted with the treatments available outside. Get into the pages run by the fertility clinics & IVF Clinic. You will gain enough knowledge to understand where you are right now. What is going on and what will be going on for the next few months is something that you need to understand completely.
Joining online forums is a great idea but on the other side, it is important to understand that one treatment mentioned by a group member with the same problem, cannot suit you. Each woman has a different body type. Do not get carried away and start judging your doctor &
When in infertility, your specialist is your best friend! No one shall be able to understand your emotions better.   
Remember, there are going to be obstacles, there are going to haters, and there are going be people who doubt your abilities… there will be people who shall find ways to hurt you…
But there are no limits… Follow what Winston Churchill said,” If you are going through hell… keep going”

About the Doctor
Dr. Seema Jain is a gynecologist & fertility specialist at CheQKmate, a renowned Fertility & IVF Clinic in Pune PCMC providing support and care. Begin your journey towards parenthood with Dr. Seema Jain, Gynecologist & Fertility Specialist at CheQKmate, an advanced Fertility & IVF Clinic in Pune, PCMC. As a dedicated fertility specialist, she offers comprehensive care, ensuring tailor-made solutions. If you’re searching for the best fertility doctor in Pimple Saudagar, Pune, trust Dr. Seema Jain’s expertise. Our fertility & IVF clinic near you is committed to providing unparalleled services in a state-of-the-art facility.
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